Don’t be a football of other people’s opinion

There’s a saying that goes, “words are sharper than a knife”.

Just one compliment or a remark is capable of either making or ruining our day. Isn’t it? We are so vulnerable….that we don’t need a tsunami to kill someone, only a few words will do the needful. But this doesn’t mean that we give the remote of our emotions in the hands of other people.

They should not decide when we will be happy or sad. The control of our state of mind and emotions should be in our hand.

JUST REMEMBER:

“As long as you are comfortable with your body, mind and feelings…no one can play with your feelings.”

Unless and until you don’t make the remote available, other will NOT grab it!

“No one can sit on your back until it is bent.”

Don’t you agree with me?

I know it isn’t an easy job to stop being bothered by other people’s opinion, but this has to stop somewhere.

It is not our fault either. This is what most of us have been grilled since childhood. Irrespective of what you feel, if someone says it’s good, then it is good and if someone says it is bad then it is defiantly bad!

But obviously, not everything that is taught to us is right.

So now that we all are grownups (hopefully), it’s time we start having our own opinions and stop being a FOOTBALL!!!

I have to some extent, stopped bothering of what people say and their taunts…and am more at peace than ever.

What about you? Tell me.